Brilliant take on the "buying vs wearing" gap. I had this exact problem with a jacket I kept in the closet for like 8 months cause I was worried about looking pretentious. The "purposely try to look ugly" part actually flips the whole validation-seeking thing on its head, if nobodys approval matters then the only person left to please is yourself.
Brilliant take on the "buying vs wearing" gap. I had this exact problem with a jacket I kept in the closet for like 8 months cause I was worried about looking pretentious. The "purposely try to look ugly" part actually flips the whole validation-seeking thing on its head, if nobodys approval matters then the only person left to please is yourself.
1. I need to see this jacket, I suspect it’s incredible
2. Agreed. Nothing is embarrassing if you’re not embarrassed. 💡